Re: Women do not
ahem, back to the topic...
there was actually a program on the science channel (or history channel, sorry cant remember), the program called "Nova" about a very similar topic.
It seems that men are aroused mostly by visual stimuli. Seeing beauty. Women are aroused more by thoughts, feelings, emotions. They showed brain scans where the "pleasure center" of male brains lit up with visuals. Women can light up their "pleasure centers" with visuals also but its more rare and its also less intense. WHen women are read a romantic love story however, that pleasure center lights up in the same manner as the men's (when the men are shown a racy photo of a gorgeous model).
Yup. Men are from Mars, women are from Venus. We're wired differently thats all.
I knew it!!!
you know what peeves me! this gender nuturing/ neutralizing of this culture of ourS! its all on about how man and women are exactly the same!
Same my tush!!!
i tell u we women are totally different then men! we are! we are very emotional beings! and men are very shallow beings! (not in a bad way - but thats how men think - i mean sports its not convuluted its one vs another and one/ other wins - we women on the other hand prefer drama, we want a one side to be good, other to be bad, but yet there to be complications drama before one side wins over hte other- in any event point being we like things to have more depth)
i guess, what i am saying is, despite the physical evidence, its like we dont as a society want to recognize the differences! meanwhile all we are doing is pretending that men are as emotionally inspired as women! and obviously this leads to all of these failed expectations we women have. not to mention its creating a soceity where the "masculine" features/ mannerisms have become the norm, and to be succesfull now women have to aspire to be better men essentially!
so u see all these women suited up and succesfull and it peeves me, b/c they are cosidered the role models for us women, they are made out to be champions of women rights! when really all these women have done/ become is better men!
u know - its like "feminism" is being slowly eradicated from our societies! thats why we are becoming so agressive and waring soceities! b/c notions od peace, cogeniality, characteristics that i would call are "feminine" have been marginilized! being emotional is not professional, so u dont use it in society to do anything but literatre and art! and if u belive in peace u are beauty queen bimbo - u know!
anyway, well thanx for enlightening us! good to see such facts!