Sometimes though, its nice to take a different perspective because you may not realize you're being irrational. There are moments when a person is being unreasonable and doesnt know it...*in such cases a friend steps in *(at least mine do Alhumdulillah whether I want to hear it or not) to let you know where you're going wrong. A good friend will do that at least.
going on that note, guys also avoid doing that, so much so that even when there is something obviously going wrong with their buddy, they feel hesitant to point that out. I know that is not a good thing but it does happen.
When it comes to discussing real life situations, be them health related, relationships issues or others, I notice that ladies start threads of more personal nature than guys. I mean I have not seen (hardly seen) a thread started by a guy discussing his feuds with his BIL or discussing his last prostrate exam with other guys and asking for their opinion.
Are we more reserved, keeping our private stuff to ourselves or you think that guys don’t find such topics discussion worthy as they don’t like to take advices?
***Maybe men don’t think they need to ask for advice as they feel it makes them appear indecisive or weak .…
As far as discussing things of a personal nature though I don’t believe there is no one they discuss it with…there is always one particular person that a guy does do to discuss personal problems , issues or ask for advice !!! ***
When it comes to discussing real life situations, be them health related, relationships issues or others, I notice that ladies start threads of more personal nature than guys. I mean I have not seen (hardly seen) a thread started by a guy discussing his feuds with his BIL or discussing his last prostrate exam with other guys and asking for their opinion.
Are we more reserved, keeping our private stuff to ourselves or you think that guys don’t find such topics discussion worthy as they don’t like to take advices?
We are more reserved as in we don't tell stuff everyone.
But as in keeping it all in? I don't think so. I think there is one/TINY amount of person(s) that every guy has who he can talk to everytime about anything.
When it comes to discussing real life situations, be them health related, relationships issues or others, I notice that ladies start threads of more personal nature than guys. I mean I have not seen (hardly seen) a thread started by a guy discussing his feuds with his BIL or discussing his last prostrate exam with other guys and asking for their opinion.
Are we more reserved, keeping our private stuff to ourselves or you think that guys don’t find such topics discussion worthy as they don’t like to take advices?
We are more reserved as in we don't tell stuff to everyone like khwateen.
But as in keeping it all in? I don't think so. I think there is one/TINY amount of person(s) that every guy has who he can talk to everytime about anything.
As far as discussing things of a personal nature though I don't believe there is no one they discuss it with......there is always one particular person that a guy does do to discuss personal problems , issues or ask for advice !!! ***
I think there is one/TINY amount of person(s) that every guy has who he can talk to everytime about anything.
although I agree but I dont have once specific person. It depends about that nature of that info. It could me my BIL for my finances and my buddy for my health issues and what not.
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