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This seems to be the hottest thread on here 
LB, by role play did you mean S&M, whips and chains, costumes, teacher-student, boss-employee, hooker-john, that kinda stuff?
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5abi, Whats your defination of role playing ? :-|
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Its strange but i heard of 3 divorces in Pakistan, these come out as a result of that inability(unable to perform), and that was just within first week of marriage, all thes three girls were from very noble families, they were very unhappy over their too early divorces.
I also know a Holy Prophet's Hadeeth PBUH inwhich there was SAHAABia(i forgot her name) She lodged the complaint before Holy Prophet PBUH that she didn't like her husband, she just want to spit on his face whenever he came close.......................So Holy Prophet PBUH gave her the right to leave him.......He arranged the separation that is Called KHULAA.
Holy Prophet PBUH never asked any further details of their relationship with each other, that was enough that she hates him.
If I made any mistake in quoting above Hadith.........please correct me.
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Champion of WOMEN RIGHTS is only the ISLAM......
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those divorces should not be happening with viagra available now.lol.most women don't demand that much sex to be embarassing any man.according to Doctor Phil 50% of women in America have little or no sex drive which explains why so many of them are gold diggers and don't care that much about how attracted they are to their men.Infact in Pakistan quite the opposite is more true,i've heard stories of women wanting divorce or being upset at their husband because he was doing them too much.The horniest women i ever came across were mexicans,i doubt if Pakistani women are that horny given their dislike for men.
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I heard of a similar hadith, where prophet (pbuh) said that marry a person that you would like to look at, for you have to spend your whole life with that person. If you don't like the face/physical form of the person, don't marry that person. ...... and only Allah knows the truth.
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Yeah.
When you look at ALL the world... you want it ALL!
Modern problems are sick n stupid
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I agree with you. American White/black or Mexican women, all learn about sex and being sexy and are forced to show their bodies off to look sexier or get sex etc. When in a marital contract, few women bother so much about that… meaning too much sex.
I also heard recently about a Paki woman here who was pretty simple desi woman and was complaining that her husband is talking about 2nd wife, since she gets tired of doing it (the guy was on a night shift job so the whole day when kids go to school, poor woman was at his mercy 
) so she discussed with her friends what to do and most advised her to give him or face the second wife … now that’s not funny 
But they also discussed that just “giving” won’t be enough so the discussion went on very interesting… End of the story, She’s happy with her husband now and he’s not talking about 2nd wife.
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islam gives woman the right to pick a man of their choice:) ........if ur honai wala dulha isn,t physical compatible with u then u have the right to say no to his proposal.:) ...nothing wrong with it cuz this phycical stuff is an important part of marriage:o .....
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Hussain 87........in Pakistan mostly marriages are arranged, these brides only come to know this stuff after wedding............
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^i know of atleast 2 desi women who took divorce from their husband cause they were feeling humiliated and embarassed after having sex with them and thought that their husband were sick.:D.i think it has to do with the mindset of certain women who may have a low sex drive to begin with and then on the other hand feel that sex is dirty and sick anyway.
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yeh i know .....its more of cultural issue then religious cuz in islam u can marry some1 of ur choice:) ....
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pakistani womans rather get pregnant then having this stuff with their husbands..4 year main 4 bachai har saal 1 to ye sab karnai k liye kiya time bachai ga:o .........
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Ye without going staring at their backsides, and drooling over pictures...
Its meant to be ONLY seen when getting married....
Satisfy thy desire, is what is worshipped now...
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Its a beautiful thing to share yourself with your spouse and even better when both parties ensure that the other enjoys and is fulfilled. If that doesnt happen, then open communication can help...IF and when there is interest in making things better....
A woman OR a man can divorce for being unfulfilled, its an important part of marriage. If there are "physical" problems, seek the help of specialists. SO many sexual troubles these days can be avoided with the help of modern day science or counseling. Infertility included. So once again, it depends upon the dedication of each person in the marriage to keep the marriage.
I know one woman who had such love for her husband, and her husband had such love for her, they were both starry eyed. But she never got pregnant. The husbands mother called him home to pak on pretense of needing him there. Well when he got there, he was promptly presented with a new young and fertile virgin bride. he listened to his mommy and stayed there, leaving his love in US to fend for herself even though he was heartbroken and wife number 1 was completely devastated. Long story short, young fertile virgin bride number 2 never got preggo either. The guy is impotent.
If he had half a brain, he'd have gone back to wife number 1, gone to infertility specialists and had his children thru In-Vitro Fertilization which wife number 1's insurance would have covered.
Instead, wife number 1 is still devastated and humiliated and divorced. Guy lives over in Pak with wife number 2, no kids, no money to try for IVF not that they would because that would just be even more humiliating over there.
Theres just too many angles to this whole thing but long story short....make sure you marry someone you can consider a friend and a partner and if things start to go wrong, seek whatever help you may need to make things right.
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No ms afridi, impotence means "not potent" as in not being able to impregnate. Some forms of impotence include no erection and no ejaculation. But sometimes men can perform, can attain erection and even ejaculation but troubles with sperm or other "male" issues prevent impregnation. The trouble that this guy had was "tail-less" sperm and low sperm count. He had no trouble performing though.
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DAMN! lets just call him infertile...or not-a-man. lol
p.s. if you knew who Afridi is, you would know that i'm not a ms.
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You’re married?