Would you marry someone who had children from a previous marriage.
YES!
but kid have to be under3-4 years old and extremely cute.
and That cuteness should come from mom's side.
If u know what I mean.
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honey, thing is, as I have said before, we are part of a culture which could be real stinky at times. Specially If you step outside of accepted norms.
Now I don't want to spend all day arguing here but get this, first person who lose respect for such a person is person her self!
Those girls don't present or don't dare to consider them self a candidate for a normal romantic/married life.
I mean it may not be so much of guy's fault if such a relation become impossible or if it doesn't work out.
Girls got to have respect for them selves first!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Re: Woman with Kids
my family friend is a divorcee, thur no fault of her own she has a cute 4 yr old. shes also stunning. however no one wants to marry her and shes tarnished. only a pakistani/asian person would ever have such a mentality.
Re: Woman with Kids
yes...but not older that they can't be handled by the adopted father who is considered outsider.
my family friend is a divorcee, thur no fault of her own she has a cute 4 yr old. shes also stunning. however no one wants to marry her and shes tarnished. only a pakistani/asian person would ever have such a mentality.
if she is the way u described her and i'm sure she is then i wunder why she is not getting proposals :( i wish her the best
what makes her tarnished?
guys are always screwing up before marriage - so much so they are almost “rusted” 
what makes a girl tarnish - just because she has a kid now? or is it her “non virginity” <— which should not even matter cause the guys themselves are non-virgins.
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Yes , as I don't see any harm in doing it
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Talking about or culture (Pakistan) ... if a woman with kids (divorcee or widow) wants to marry its veryyy difficult... Men only want to marry unmarried girls.... they will say that its ok but the person saying this will go for unmarried girl and will not consider a widow n divorcee especially if she has kids too...
On the other hand if a man with kids want to marry .... if he is rich he will get a girl single,beautiful ,20 years younger than him.... and if he is not financially strong then he may marry woman (divorcee or widow ) .
* not my views atall... just observation ...*
Talking about or culture (Pakistan) ... if a woman with kids (divorcee or widow) wants to marry its veryyy difficult... Men only want to marry unmarried girls.... they will say that its ok but the person saying this will go for unmarried girl and will not consider a widow n divorcee especially if she has kids too...
On the other hand if a man with kids want to marry .... if he is rich he will get a girl single,beautiful ,20 years younger than him.... and if he is not financially strong then he may marry woman (divorcee or widow ) .
* not my views atall... just observation ...*
**
in islam marrying a divorced/widowed woman is called an act of hasanah, we must not forget that. May Allah gives hidaaya to hav compassion for others...aameen**
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yt frnds going thrua divorce too the guy was completely MAD n abssive she has the cutesttttttt 1yr old daughter n shes stunning too..god only knws wht wld happen of her May Allah give her stregth n a better life partner! im always so worried for her..
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yupp! i would because that doesnt define that person in any way - infact i think after having kids men start to realize alot more about life than before.. however its quite the norm to look down upon women who've had children from a previous marriage which is quite unfortunate because sometimes its not even the womans' fault
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someone i know married a widowed woman with a young child. the girl is his cousin, her husband passed away in a road accident. his family has disowned him. it's been over 6 yrs since they are married, and they're still not speaking to him!
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^ Why are desis retarded?
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i wouldn't consider a child from a past marriage a factor, it's the person who you like and want to marry anyway.
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^ but seriously - kids from previous marriage - are seen as burden to the new partner - BECAUSE - he will be responsible for someone else's kid...
I think what would make it fair for the woman with kids would be if HER KIDS are given "child care" money from the previous hubby!
Problem solved!
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And we all know how responsible Pakistani men are with child support....
And we all know how responsible Pakistani men are with child support....
I know they would not support because they would WANT The wife have a hard time in life! :(
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Of course. Its dirt-baggish.
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There are only a few decent men around these days, who would consider it. Otherwise aaj kal men want wifey bringing in half the dough, let alone supporting another persons child.