I’m not going to call now, I was thinking of breaking the ice with just text messages at first and see how it goes and if she gives a positive vibe. If she did then I would have called her but she hasn’t replied to my text for 2 days now. I don’t think she’s interested.
She always has her phone, when I went to see her she was ON her phone even when talking with me. So the “She’s too busy” excuse doesn’t apply here. No one person in the history of mobile communication devices since the 1960s has been busy enough to ignore someone’s text. The only viable reason for not texting me is that if a magical fairy appears out of a 8th dimension and snatches it out of her fat fingers!
I still think you would have a clearer idea if you had called. What is so wrong with calling? I understand that texting is fun and convenient, but calling shows that a guy is proactive…imo. It’s really not such a big deal to do so. You texted her…and now you only think she’s uninterested. If you were absolutely certain of her non-interest, you wouldn’t have opened this thread. Consider calling next time. Make that “one last shot” that your dad wants you to give…a phone call as opposed to a text. You tried one method…and it left you confused…now try another strategy. Just my 2 cents.
It would have been odd to just call out of the blue. I wanted to text and ease up a bit. But she replied 4 freakin our late first time then 2 days later the next time. Now it’s been another 2 days and nothing. You cannot tell me that she’s busy that’s impossible. She does not want to text, why would I call someone who doesn’t even want to text me… Think about it RV…
Considering the desi culture and the age conformity to the maturity level exercised in the subcontinent. All these people would have been around 12 or 13 when the fell in love. So yea..
I’ll give Romeo and Juliet th benefit of the doubt, they weren’t in their late 30’s and only after completing their PHD on the economic strategy of medieval Italy and Stockholm that they decided to fall in love. Or let me put it bluntly they were “Young” and not mature as much you think. Love has nothing to do with maturity. If you’re mature, you wouldn’t fall in love. You would become a lawyer instead. Love is futile. Lust however is another thing.
Many reasons, but the most logical is maybe she’s just busy and knows you can wait as your message probably wasn’t important for a reply right away but obviously it can be irksome if you wanna talk to someone but they ain’t replying right away, probably even more annoying if you know they’ve read your message but haven’t replied. One would think if you have time to read a message you have time to reply but maybe that’s just me.
It’s probably just as obvious she isn’t interested if she’s giving one word replies or isn’t initiating contact.
Welcome to the world of texting girls you’re interested in.
