Woman and texting

I text her but she replies 4 hours later. Sometimes the next day, whats going on? Parents say this is the girl I should get married to… I don’t know, why do girls do this?

Re: Woman and texting

She is not into you dude.

Ideally she should message you all the time, you reply when you feel like.
Annoying.. but thats how it works.

But on the other hand if you find a girl.... who likes you.. but dont talk to you all the time...
consider your self lucky.

Re: Woman and texting

I think you should text her more. Whats the worst that could happen.

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^What if she start texting back ??

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^So that's always a good thing in a way. You would want to have the girl text you if you wanna know if she's in to you or not.

Re: Woman and texting

hmmm
you have a point.
But what if she starts "i sent you 10 messages .. you did not answer till 4 hrs later"

Re: Woman and texting

Text her something that's more interesting and attention grabbing than the trite "Hi. How are you?"...that'll compel her to respond faster.

Better yet...why don't you just call her. Try hearing an actual voice. With delayed texts it's harder to tell if the other person is really busy or just not interested in talking...there's just greater room for assumptions and misunderstandings with texts. If you hear her voice, her tone will let you know more clearly whether she's interested or not. If she's only answering with 1-2 word responses and not asking you any questions..Or if you feel that it's mostly you carrying the conversation, them she's not that interested. So, try calling and u'll get a better idea and can move on if she's not that into u.

Re: Woman and texting

For example ?
I have feeling if RV were to write a text.. there would be so many dots... that there wont be space for words.

Re: Woman and texting

Text her "What time is it?" hopefully she will reply quickly

and if her replied text is 30 seconds or more later than the timestamp of original message, dump her (it will be a blessing in disguise............................................................for her)

Re: Woman and texting

No. Not always.

Re: Woman and texting

Don’t bother guessing what my texts would look like when you’re not likely to receive one. :flower1:

Re: Woman and texting

She is busy messaging the other rishta guy.

Re: Woman and texting

Ha! Then why waste my time?

Re: Woman and texting

That's one way of finding out. If given the chances that you have no other way of finding out.

Re: Woman and texting

Guys fuss over late texts too ??:eek:

Re: Woman and texting

isay kehte hain, jaltay pe namak chirakna :hehe:

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:slight_smile:

Re: Woman and texting

You are plan C.... in case the other two don't work out.

Re: Woman and texting

A big dose of reality.

Re: Woman and texting

Have you ever asked if she prefers texting or calling? Some people are just not made for texting.
Otherwise I agree with Mirch and OneYourMomWarnedAbt, it doesn't look too good. I admit, I am that type of person who doesn't always text back sometimes for hours not because I don't want to but because I don't always carry my phone with me but if I was talking to a marriage prospect and liked them then I would always make the effort to have my phone nearby.