Wives on Tinder

[gudiaali]

Re: Wives on Tinder

@crabman

Actually tinder is not designed to be a hook-up site, it is designed to meet random people and make friends without any focus on hook-ups. Although it is being used only for the latter purpose, and since y’all feel that it is wrong for married and committed people to be on this app, let me remind you fundamentally our culture and religion doesn’t allows any kind of hook-up even if you are not in a relationship or married. Being on tinder and sliding na-mehrams right and left would be wrong in the first place.
And since non-of-you guys have a problem with that but do have a problem with committed people looking for hook-ups, therefore I find this argument hypocritical. We all have our personal rights and wrongs. All the wrongs we do, we justify them in our minds as rights. If they are on tinder they have the right to be without being judged, at least give them the benefit of doubt. Maybe, just maybe they are there to make friends without any intention of cheating.

The difference here is that when you are not committed and you are hooking up or trying to with “Na-mehrams”, it is between you and GOD but when you are committed or married and you are still trying to hook up with someone else, then you are cheating your spouse and you are cheating the other person too(if you are posing yourself as single), and this way this doesn’t only remain between you and the GOD. And that is why treating both cases as same has no justification.