Seeing your fellow married, engaged, in-relationship friends on Tinder make you lose faith … not that faith was really strong to start off with but seriously. Tinder is mainly a hook-up site and these people I am talking are white …i don’t know if there is a desi version where married desi men and ladies try to hook up. The thing is these people are from Good families, good careers, everything checks but then this!?
I wonder if this happens in desi community?? Desi married men 4 kids posting their profile as a single guy on Shadi.com or somewhere
What people do in their personal lives is non of anyone's business. If a married guy with kids wants to post his profile let him, and if an in relationship lady wants a random hook-up let her. Live and let live, don't poke ur nose where it doesn't belongs.
Wait a minute...OP, you actually KNOW these people on Tinder? And they're cheating on their spouses? That is depressing. :(
Hmm, I don't think that there are Desi sites that promote infidelity, but you will always find people without scruples who will misuse sites that were made with nobler purposes.
What people do in their personal lives is non of anyone's business. If a married guy with kids wants to post his profile let him, and if an in relationship lady wants a random hook-up let her. Live and let live, don't poke ur nose where it doesn't belongs.
why you are being so sensitive? Its not like I am going to confront them or anything. Just making an observation, not so easy to turn a blind eye like you
What people do in their personal lives is non of anyone's business. If a married guy with kids wants to post his profile let him, and if an in relationship lady wants a random hook-up let her. Live and let live, don't poke ur nose where it doesn't belongs.
Huh? You sound as though the OP is planning to rat out the two-timers. Live and let live motto would be more applicable if he were actively trying to stop this. He simply discovered something that makes him feel green and rightly so. It is rather nauseating; allow him that.
Wait a minute...OP, you actually KNOW these people on Tinder? And they're cheating on their spouses? That is depressing. :(
Hmm, I don't think that there are Desi sites that promote infidelity, but you will always find people without scruples who will misuse sites that were made with nobler purposes.
Actually tinder is not designed to be a hook-up site, it is designed to meet random people and make friends without any focus on hook-ups. Although it is being used only for the latter purpose, and since y'all feel that it is wrong for married and committed people to be on this app, let me remind you fundamentally our culture and religion doesn't allows any kind of hook-up even if you are not in a relationship or married. Being on tinder and sliding na-mehrams right and left would be wrong in the first place.
And since non-of-you guys have a problem with that but do have a problem with committed people looking for hook-ups, therefore I find this argument hypocritical. We all have our personal rights and wrongs. All the wrongs we do, we justify them in our minds as rights. If they are on tinder they have the right to be without being judged, at least give them the benefit of doubt. Maybe, just maybe they are there to make friends without any intention of cheating.
Maybe they signed up to check it out? It got a lot of mention in the media and curiosity got the better of them. If I weren’t security conscious I would definitely check it out. Forget tinder I’m curious about grindr too
I know this is a tad off topic but what does "OP" mean? I am still getting used to some of the lingo on here and have seen alot of users use this term but couldn't figure out what it means
I know this is a tad off topic but what does "OP" mean? I am still getting used to some of the lingo on here and have seen alot of users use this term but couldn't figure out what it means
"OP"---- original poster....meaning the person who started the thread/topic
How popular is Tinder in Pakistan? Are there many people you know on it? I know some people in India using it as a free way to find potential rishtas but they end up just making friends. I don’t think it is very safe or secure to meet someone who is a match on Tinder. I’ve heard of some people using it as a way to make friends if they travel to a new city. Many people chat for weeks but they end up not meeting or just talking on phone. I feel like even if it is used for hookups in west it might not be used for that purpose in other countries.
Actually tinder is not designed to be a hook-up site, it is designed to meet random people and make friends without any focus on hook-ups. Although it is being used only for the latter purpose, and since y'all feel that it is wrong for married and committed people to be on this app, let me remind you fundamentally our culture and religion doesn't allows any kind of hook-up even if you are not in a relationship or married. Being on tinder and sliding na-mehrams right and left would be wrong in the first place.
And since non-of-you guys have a problem with that but do have a problem with committed people looking for hook-ups, therefore I find this argument hypocritical. We all have our personal rights and wrongs. All the wrongs we do, we justify them in our minds as rights. If they are on tinder they have the right to be without being judged, at least give them the benefit of doubt. Maybe, just maybe they are there to make friends without any intention of cheating.
Why are you taking this so personally? It is a public site; am certain the ones who signed up don't really care about being judged. The ones that do, don't sign up.
I believe on old school thought…buying a coffee to complete stranger hottie is where it should start
PS: infidelity is around from day 1 in one form or another. These apps, sites are just new tools making it a bit more easier. But look at this way, do all the corruption make you lose faith on truthfulness? If not why lose faith on pure relationship because of some crooks?
