Someone I know says that Tinder is like modern day prostitution. His exact words: sophisticated prostitution.
Heard that there are real prostitutes on there. They message you back and forth and once you start to like them, they come clean. Not sure how true is that
Personally I don't have a problem with anyone being on tinder committed or not. Having said that, if its the fear of judgment that is stopping people from signing up than IMO people who have signed up and don't care about being judged are far better than those who are afraid to. If its the fear of judgment that is stopping us from doing stuff like this, that is more pathetic than the act itself. We should not find it appealing in the first case, instead of wanting to do it and not doing because others might find it weird or whatever...
yes I know of men who are married and they have fake profiles on Facebook and shadi online sites, posing themselves as single. The worst part is, that once they get in contact with women via these sites, they then tell them they are married and yet some women continue with them knowing they are married. Sad world it is.
Actually tinder is not designed to be a hook-up site, it is designed to meet random people and make friends without any focus on hook-ups. Although it is being used only for the latter purpose, and since y'all feel that it is wrong for married and committed people to be on this app, let me remind you fundamentally our culture and religion doesn't allows any kind of hook-up even if you are not in a relationship or married. Being on tinder and sliding na-mehrams right and left would be wrong in the first place.
And since non-of-you guys have a problem with that but do have a problem with committed people looking for hook-ups, therefore I find this argument hypocritical. We all have our personal rights and wrongs. All the wrongs we do, we justify them in our minds as rights. If they are on tinder they have the right to be without being judged, at least give them the benefit of doubt. Maybe, just maybe they are there to make friends without any intention of cheating.
The difference here is that when you are not committed and you are hooking up or trying to with "Na-mehrams", it is between you and GOD but when you are committed or married and you are still trying to hook up with someone else, then you are cheating your spouse and you are cheating the other person too(if you are posing yourself as single), and this way this doesn't only remain between you and the GOD. And that is why treating both cases as same has no justification.
Heard that there are real prostitutes on there. They message you back and forth and once you start to like them, they come clean. Not sure how true is that
I'd say dear chap, pray tell me how to retrieve such profiles on my handy dandy type writer. It's the state of the art technology you see.
No experience with tinder but when I was younger and had hormonal high tides I used to go to these chat forum for flirting. The most serious affair I had was with a divorcee, she was very talkative...and financially demanding ( Top up my pay phone, buy me this n that...) . I complied to her wishes for an year or so...and then her demands grew more and more...and amongst them was that I divorce my current wife and marry her instead and that's where the split happened. I was very young back then i.e.( 25 yrs of age). But I was very honest and my profile said " Married but Still Looking"
Forgot to mention that my taste have changed a lot now, I have little affinity for human females now .I am more into fantasy creatures...like mermaids, fairies...and elves...my next wife wife would be an elf !
Ummmm have you never heard of Ashley Madison? At least Tinder targets singles wanting to meet up and get together, but Ashley Madison is specifically for adulterous affairs.
Theres another app. This one really takes the biscuit - its people who you have walked past that show up on your radar. The app is called tangle its basically tinder for the committed stalkers (for those who stalking is an art)
Aur khul ke bataa'o. Tumhari story tou bohooot interesting hai
I am living a retired life and anxiously waiting for the release of the battle of the five armies ( The Hobbit) , please do not distract me with human relationship topics.
Researchers are still poring over the unusually large dump, but already they say it includes user names, first and last names, and hashed passwords for 33 million accounts, partial credit card data, street names, and phone numbers for huge numbers of users, records documenting 9.6 million transactions, and 36 million e-mail addresses. While much of the data is sure to correspond to anonymous burner accounts, it’s a likely bet many of them belong to real people who visited the site for clandestine encounters. For what it’s worth, more than 15,000 of the e-mail addresses are hosted by US government and military servers using the .gov and .mil top-level domains.