Withholding sex from your spouse

diwana · December 4, 2010, 3:53am

Re: Withholding sex from your spouse

no b/c they were flirting with girls/women that were off limits or that wouldn’t be interested. yaar, i’ve had plenty of good pakistani men around me, as fellow students and friends but these guys were definitely not one of those sweet ones, they were crooked, trust me, like they were only after one thing.

They were being men. That’s all. Nothing to do with which background they were from. Too bad no one else flirted with you and looked for ‘that one thing’ from you except those Pakistani muslim men.

any woman would know that they were womanizers, let me just say that. not generalizing at all. don’t be angry**

Again, you should be glad at least they found you good enough to be a candidate for such a good act (as you said earlier not as a bad thing) like womanizing. No one else did dare do that. So why make a fuss? Be happy. **

ok as a desi man would you respect your wife in the same amount if she seduced you into sex, like every technique a woman could think of. totally showed you that she desired it?

Sure. Why not? Should I go for that to the neighbor’s girl? More power to her. But that does not mean non-desis or western society men would do the same. Everyone is an individual. You generalize in your comment all the time..shows your bias if not the lack of understanding of human to human interactions regardless of cultures.

in the movies the nondesis don’t seem turned off by that. **i wouldn’t know how it would be with nondesis **unless i was in their bedroom

**The catch here is “in the movies”. **

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