Withholding sex from your spouse

Lifestyle Relationships
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So however unethical and immoral it may be to do that…do people (okay women) still do it and odes it work…or is it totally outdated practice?

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I ought to remove this thread for you giving women evil ideas.

You zalimana insaan

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sara ur the married one u tell us

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figures this thread attracted more single men than married women :(

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That is un-Islamic practice:

Abu Hurayrah (RA) reported that the Prophet (SAW) said:
"If a man calls his wife to his bed and she refuses, and he goes to sleep angry with her, the angels will curse her until morning." [Bukhari, see Fath al-Bari, 6/314]
Many women, when they have an argument with their husbands, "punish" them-as they think-by denying them their marital rights. This may result in major corruption if the husband is tempted to do something haraam, or it may backfire on the husband starts thinking seriously of taking another wife.

A wife should hasten to respond to her husband's call if he wants her, in obedience to the words of the Prophet (SAW):
"If a man calls his wife to his bed, let her respond, even if she is riding on the back of a camel (i.e. very busy)." [See Zawa id al-bazzar, 2/181; see also Saheeh al-Jami', hadith no. 547]

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Sara you're giving me material for the itnerview ...t hanks

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Did I mentoin this has nothing to do with my life whatsoever :o

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You should have. :mirch:

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What if its other way round ???? Can she protest ??? any consequences for men ???

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I think guys dont give the poor girls a chance to protest :p lolz.

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I wonder if such behaviour leads upto martial rape?

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Why would someone do that?

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Sometimes people really don’t “feel” like it and spouses should give room to each other. But if there’s a fishy reason for withholding, then there’s a concern brewing :hmmm:.

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Well yeah in this case it’s pretty obvious.

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Not really they are so weak these days . Anyways , some punishment from God may be ???

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You know better :p

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I don't . Enlighten us :)

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remember one thing, whatever you withhold, either sex or tax, you have to pay it with interest.

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LOL

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Get married and find out :)