Withholding sex from your spouse

[Nisha25]

Re: Withholding sex from your spouse

@diwana

I get the hint. Could it be possible that those flirts never gone beyond flirting and hence conveniently not taken seriously?

no b/c they were flirting with girls/women that were off limits or that wouldn’t be interested. yaar, i’ve had plenty of good pakistani men around me, as fellow students and friends but these guys were definitely not one of those sweet ones, they were crooked, trust me, like they were only after one thing.

any woman would know that they were womanizers, let me just say that. not generalizing at all. don’t be angry

@diwana

Glad to see you stayed low this time and also that you included the word marriage in your post.

Before, you came out having a generalized comment about women somehow being subjected to double standard.

In marriage, regardless of ‘western’ society or ‘damn backward desi culture’, there may be men who would like or would not even like women to be proactive in seeking sex. Depends on the persons, level of communication between them or their upbringing in a given environment.

Divorces have happened in ‘western societies’ based on men not approving women to be nymph and making men worried about them being too forward.

Thanks for mentioning again for a college friend.

ok as a desi man would you respect your wife in the same amount if she seduced you into sex, like every technique a woman could think of. totally showed you that she desired it?

in the movies the nondesis don’t seem turned off by that. i wouldn’t know how it would be with nondesis unless i was in their bedroom