Withholding sex from your spouse

[diwana]

Re: Withholding sex from your spouse

@Nisha25

ugh i’ve never believed in sex b4 marriage, that cool college friend i lost touch with but yes only a good friend in my eyes. the flirts were others and weren’t taken seriously

but i was just saying, i guess in western society seduction by a woman isn’t seen as bad most of the time and definitely a plus in marriage. i love the concept

withholding sex, if it’s not b/c of any abuse or pain, i would see as cruel whether it’s a man or woman doing it. sexless marriages imply major probs in the marriage but no sex just for the heck of it, i’ve never seen except in extreme cases of weirdness.

I get the hint. Could it be possible that those flirts never gone beyond flirting and hence conveniently not taken seriously?

Glad to see you stayed low this time and also that you included the word marriage in your post.

Before, you came out having a generalized comment about women somehow being subjected to double standard.

In marriage, regardless of ‘western’ society or ‘damn backward desi culture’, there may be men who would like or would not even like women to be proactive in seeking sex. Depends on the persons, level of communication between them or their upbringing in a given environment.

Divorces have happened in ‘western societies’ based on men not approving women to be nymph and making men worried about them being too forward.

Thanks for mentioning again for a college friend.