Re: With no offense to women
^ again, finding clear disasters in other cultures and justifying their experimentation as a better way is not right either.
at many levels, oppression and exploitation of women in the west and in the east is primarily due to the mentality of men and those women who think that women's exhibitionism from male and female designer shows female models cat walks to disgusting nude females' clubs and bars to the porn magazines and actual brothels is all servicing men.
so while denying sexual liberty to women, in legal and married context (desperate wives situations), in the world there are countless women subjected to trafficking, violence, rapes, brutal physical and mental torture and eventually lives that are painful due to disease and even murders at the hands of men who have abused these women.
no woman chooses to be in any of these ignoble conditions. men are responsible for this.
west or no-west - caucasian or brown or pacific or arab or african or hispanic
all women are at some point in time, go through their men’s' insensitivity.
that is why in the west we had feminism, that yes, may have had flaw of negating women's powers at home, but no one can deny that with that came a lot of failures in raising good families.
even when women were not promiscuous, but working, and managing house responsibilities, their husbands were fooling around with other single or desperate married women.
clearly we wont want this to be the end of a societal system in any society.
first off, people need to get married to one person of opposite sex, at a good age, when both have sufficient education and financial stability, (30 +) , and not act like a mouse or bat, and sneak or fly away last minute.
(this risk has to be taken and it better taken be free of doubts and with a really good intention)
second, each couple needs to define its distribution of labor out side of and in side of the house and plan their family.
third, each couple must have a mission as a couple, as a member of their original families and as example for their off spring and be contributing member of the society they are a part of.
there is no room for promiscuity in a wedding.
that is why a woman must divorce such a man or a man must divorce such a woman. if this couple has child/ren - s/he/they will suffer either way. may a single parent can raise them well.
at work, and at home, a couple must be a complete source of comfort for each other - emotionally, economically, socially, personality, physically and spiritually.
rest is up to the Maker to make it work.
then, you wont need the self destructive free-wheeling demoralized personal life of sexual glitz and the glam of trying out many people, from age of puberty -to 50+ and then these people were busy partying and now they are old and all alone. what a loss.