Re: wise advice needed
**Ya we have considered him working other places.. He is getting lots of luxury at the family place. he goes late and family is there to cover his lateness. He takes off on random days and they accomodate. Yet he is so unappreciative
First of all, he needs to find a place to work, which he doesnt do. He doesnt have US bachelors degree so whatever job he finds will be like chauffer or gas station… which I dont want. It upsets me that he has it so well working at the shop but doesnt appreciate.
**Diamond, she does not want him to work as a chauffer…they are doing ehsaan on him for their daughter and if they are doing ehsaan, do ethics allow us to put some onedown because you have done favors to him?.. ..leave their relationship aside…if you cant be neutral then dont do favours as simple as that…and she should definitely let her husband be a chauffer and not feel ashamed of it.. .let him see what kind of problems he will face when he gets out of their family business…he’ll be fine
having said that, he is bound to respect her parents and she n her parents are bound to respect him…and forget the ehsaan part for God’s sake…this would only destroy her relationship with him …
completely agree with you on the high-lightened part ! thats what I said she should speak with both her parents & her husband and request them to respect each other or things can get really bad.