Will you refuse a girl if...............

[Ghost14]

Re: Will you refuse a girl if…

@Sehrysh

Well then, I guess marriage and commitment count for nothing. The assumption here is that people cannot/will not be faithful if given the opportunity and that their own intention and commitment to fidelity counts for nothing if the opportunity to step out on a relationship exists.

Would placing yourself in a position to stray from your commitments be a smart idea? I know for damn sure that if I find a coworker attractive, I’m not going to be having lunch dates with her. Why risk that?

Would you let your child run with scissors, as long as you explain the dangers to them? You throw enough temptation at someone and anyone would break. We’re all only human.

And I’m not saying that every platonic relationship is going to turn into a romantic one. I have a female friend I’m very close with. Or rather, I was very close with. We don’t hang out as much since she got married. And she’s not desi either. So this type of thinking is not a religious or cultural thing.