sweefs
March 18, 2014, 2:59pm
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Re: Will you refuse a girl if…
A lot of it would fall down to trust. If a person cannot trust his/her spouse enough that little lunches may cause him/her discomfort then maybe there is a problem there or maybe that’s how they roll in which case they are entitled to think the way they do. Everyone has specific requirements for rishtas.
However PERSONALLY I’d find it odd to reject someone, esp a potential rishta where the person works, in a multi-gendered workplace interactions like these are bound to happen. Like Ess Emm and a couple of people have said, if someone has an issue they should be blunt and ask about it instead of questioning someone’s entire character.
last bit, sab keh chukay hain yay so chup karo.
and first bit, i think someone said above that the trust issue implies that there’s already some issues within a marriage for one to enjoy the company of another to the point they are specifically doing lunches with someone else.