Will you refuse a girl if...............

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Re: Will you refuse a girl if…

@bella88

if the guy whos seeking the rishta himself is very religious, never mixes with the opposite gender himself, never talks to na mehram females when unncessary (that includes his cousins aswell), then he shouldn’t marry a girl whos not doing the same. that will cause much more problems later on since they are not on the same page when it comes to religion. But whats not fair is guys who themselves have no problems in talking to girls and hanging out with them, but want a wife who has never talked to a guy or whos not so ‘modern’. thats jut hypocrisy. at the end of the day, if you’re that religious, you should find a girl whos equally religious so you don’t impose your views on a modern girl who doesn’t want to subject herself to harsh rules.

Um, thats kinda what is implied. If one person has that viewpoint and wants to reject someone on the basis of it.. then fine. Thats what ive said. Hypocrisy is another issue altogether which was not what OP specifically asked or described.

Also, its getting kinda tiring with the continuous sarcastic jokes now. I thought i had the ability to beat a joke to death..