Will you refuse a girl if...............

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Re: Will you refuse a girl if…

@uzair1

So its a necessity to travel with male colleagues and having lunches with them. Thats not the issue here.

I think the issue the OP was referring to was: A woman has male colleagues; she hangs out with them; has group lunches etc. But she only has one-one lunches with one of them.
Sure, that one guy could just be a better friend. But I’ve observed (and I’d like to know others opinions on this) that, more often than not, that male colleague is also the more ‘eligible’ one among the lot.

my question refers to having group lunches at times and at times and at times having a solo lunch casual lunch with any one of the male colleagues. it is not about having a solo lunch with the same colleague multiple times.
even though in my personal opinion even if that is happening it doesn’t necessarily mean that something is wrong with the girl or the guy. they can just be the good buddies who enjoy each others company.