Will you marry someone shorter than you!

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This would be an excellent topic for a thread only If you feel comfortable talking about it.

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LI.. na.. i’ve told the story often enuff to my close friends.. its ghissi pitti now and a pain to tell now.. :rolleyes:

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Fantastic1: you should for sure discuss it with your parents and arrange a meeting to find out more or talk to him over phone. There is more to marriage than physical appearance like everyone else had said. So many more things to balance after marriage than balancing ones self on heels ;) Plus in arranged marriages there is no love, it develops later as time goes by. You must look into it further. Good luck.

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I'm a giraffe. and I have the best husband on the planet (sorry gals). I'm about 3-4 inches taller. Thats the very last thing I ever notice about him though. I wont go on too much about his physical beauty (I'm not typically an "ogler" but I still enjoy "ogling" him!) but really what matters is the wonderful person he is. So what, I dont wear heels (actually thats a blessing in disguise lol) no matter, it doesnt change how lucky I am to have him!

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i would any1 in whom i get interested … :blush:

no more no less

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im 5.2 maself..so.. i dont want some1 shorter than me..

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The way you are describing the situation, NO! Maybe after you have gotten to know him.
If my fiance was shorter than me i wouldn’t care, love em!!! :love:

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Ok iam 5’6 u mean shorter then tat :eek:
he would be a mid Dwarfs :smiley:

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^ if he’s shorter..
woh dekho.. bari aunty attia jaa rahi hai..apne chotey uncle ke saath..:cb:

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God forbid. A rishta thru a third person would probably not even make it to our house.
Allah maaf karay but no.

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maan you reminded me of a really hilarious story i will try to give a good picture here..

My cousin is mashallah 5’10, slim, pretty, big eyes. My aunty was lookin for her rishta anywayz she was sitting down with her mother on one of the tables at the shadi [of another relative]. This potential guy approached [they knew they were going to meet]. Guy sat down after saying hello my cousin got so upset brcause the guy was barely 5’4]. Nice doctor from Georgia and what not. He spoke with my aunty for few mins and then when he was leaving. As he got up my cousin did the same thing :D.. he was finished hafl way through and my cousin kept on going :rotfl:

maan tom and jerry ka haal lag raha tha - poor guy he looked up in the air as if he was looking at a kite lol.

Thank goodness aunty found a 6ft man for her lol and they look good together.

This other cousin :smiley: she is about 5’3 and her husband is about 5’1 difference is obvious. Bhai even wore heel waley boats lol on his shadi- camera maan ne kia shots le hain un ke pao ki its hilarious. it worked out fine for them as well..

my chacha ji bechare is about 5’2 and chachi ji is 5’7 - dadi ami ko kaha tha choti se larki doondana but living happily today


fanta difference of 1 or 2 inches still looks okay i guess.


I personally don’t think i can do that. par jo kismat mein hota hai woh to hota hi hai na :~) - because mein kud hi choti si hon :crying:

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khateeen *hugz.. sometimes in life we all make mistakes and i know its tough to fix them :~) -especially when familes are involved

:hugz:

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I used to think I wouldn't mind (I have liked a shorter dude in the past), lekin after the amount of bakwas I have heard cause of my height, now I do mind. He has to be at least the same height as me (5'9") without heels.

Let me just add, that in the past, I have been rejected by potential mothers cause of my height even though I have had no problem with their chotay sons. It seems to be intimidating, at least for some mothers and their sons. :D

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I did.

And I better not see anyone of you complaining when a guy says he wants to mari a gori chiti khobsorat jawan larki.

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ahmadjee :rolleyes:

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:)

Or if he says he wants one of them dark and sultry ones. Yee ok.

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AJ have u seen that movie ’ mein, meri patni aur woh’? :hehe: do watch it.

Mehnaz thats funny cos we have often had ladies trying to convince my mum that height isn;t even a deal, tau kya huwa agar thora sa farq hei, patta bhi nahi chalta.
Abbay aunty damn well patta chalta hei! Thanks but no thanks.

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Femme, I once had a woman phone me directly at work. She completely skipped over the part of talking to my mother first. She phoned me and went on and on about height and how I need to consider her son even though he was 2 inches shorter than me. I said "o.k.", but she wouldn't shut up for a good 20 minutes. The conversation was just me going "ahaan" and listening to her yap. It went from her convincing me to give her son a chance to how she wears a hijab cause she's bald.

Don't ask.

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mehnaz :rotfl: maan aunties could be hilarious

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:hehe: @ Mehaz’s story…

i doubt i’ll find anyone taller than me :smiley: