will you consider

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Re: will you consider

@Iconoclast

Can she stay clear of her family for rest of her life? Can contact with her family be avoided after marriage? If yes, then I would consider her, before making sure that she indeed is different than the rest.

If the family can be kept at a distance why not give the person a chance..
We can’t help who we’re related to.. I’ve got a couple of fairly difficult family members myself.. That reminds me I need to blog :hinna:
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@MustafaQuraishi

that was my reason why i made my earlier comment. If people outside of their circle say that the girl is nice then i don’t think there should be any objection on her. The only thing guy should be worried about that how can he keep her family away from the girl in future. Perhaps, the girl wants the same but because she is a girl, she couldn’t do it by herself. So a strong person who can stand next to her might be something she is looking for to tell her family that I don’t belong to you guys and let me live my life happily.

@Sentry

I wouldn’t judge the girl due to the actions of others. I always make my own mind up on someone, after all we are all individuals and actions speak louder than words. She must be pretty special if she isn’t anything like her supposedly “bad” family.

this keeping family away from her is really tough one. Her family was not this bad in start it all happened after her father passed away when they were just kids. they are total 6 in number, 4 sisters and 2 brother. 1st sister, 2nd brother, 3rd she herself, 4th another sister, 5th brother, 6th sister.

She was just 13 when her father passed away and the eldest (1) was 15 and the youngest (6) sister was just 3 and half year old. after that her eldest sister ruined family image by hanging out with bad gatherings. She can be best defined as Meera (actress of pakistan) she pretty much does things like those . Her (2) brother did his best by doing nothing, by appearance he looks like as if he is smoker or someone takes drugs, he is a freeloader but is well known for spending big amounts of money, he dint studied after metric dont know how he end up getting married being father of one child, he hardly earned in his life, before marriage he lived on (3) his sisters earning and after that he started living on his wife’s earning and when it comes on doing job he becomes a typical molvi saying this job is not halal and things like this, all he does is sleep, eat, or play games, then (4th) sister also seems to be same copy of (1) both spoiled sisters are fully makeup-ed, dressed up like supermodels and have flirty nature, one can easily see.

(3rd) She started earning at a very young age, she is a nikab posh so its hard to tell when she goes and where, but for years she has been spotted in market buying groceries and all other things of needs. She is covered from head to toe and has a very simple lifestyle. She hardly interacts with people, only minds her own business and all you will see her do is looking after her mom. She is well known for being mother of her mother. No one knew her mother was sick, bed bound for a long time. She did her best while her 2 sisters were always busy in attending parties, showing off their styles and ruining the name of the family in many ways, she was seen only with her mother and two youngest siblings whom she proudly claimed as her own kids and after father she took all their responsibility. She left her own studies in between dint complete her graduation and did her best for both baby sister and brother. Thats what makes her special.