Was your mother a good mother ?
These questions are directed towards girls only. Thanks
Why can't the guys answer? They have mothers too.
But they can't become one.
ow does that affect yr own ability to be a good mother? explain..............
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*Originally posted by Brit Chick: *
Why can't the guys answer? They have mothers too.
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Because every guy loves his mother, for them, their mother is best in the world. So asking them is useless :)
ghuLail explaing what ? these are two different questions
Yes I have a wonderful mother..she tends to be dominating and over powering and protective..I see myself going that way too..hopefully the hubby will be cool and casual so our kids won;t have it too tough 
But when it comes to taking care, nuturing and having fun …I’ll be a super duper mom I hope…
My lil bro is 10 years younger than me and I treat him like my own child and he says I’m pretty cool 
I Hope and pray God gives me the chance to be a mom.
My mother is a brilliant mother who has become my best-friend.
well, i think mother roles are overrrated. recent research shows that a child with multiple caregivers is the most securely attached :nahnah:
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*Originally posted by Code_Red: *
Because every guy loves his mother, for them, their mother is best in the world. So asking them is useless :)
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And girls don't?
This makes no sense.
My mother is perfect, but I'll be very strict and over-sensitive amma :o
Kahe ko poocha jaa raha hai?
my mom is a super mom n TOO sweet n forgiving
which i why i’ve turned into a spoilt and rotten brat 
hmmm
i can never be as nice as my mom
Do you really expect poeple to say 'No, I'm gonna be the worst mother ever - torture my kids, bring them up on a diet of boiled turnips and lock them up in the basement for 20 hours a day'?
I’m gonna be the type of mum who wants her kids to be super achievers, ill make them learn tap, balle,t shakespeare how to sing opera swing dancing 7 modern languages 5 classic languages have them well groomed and bursting with confidence all before they hit 3 :nahnah:
She makes her mistakes, but her heart is in the right place - and that’s really what you hold onto in the end.
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Do you really expect poeple to say 'No, I'm gonna be the worst mother ever - torture my kids, bring them up on a diet of boiled turnips and lock them up in the basement for 20 hours a day'?
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Fita plenty of women have confessed to me that they'd be horrible moms..they can't take care of themselves leave alone a delicate lil human.
I think almost every woman has a "fear" of being a good mother.
I fear being too over protective...coz I'm the kinda person who worries even if the one I love makes a "ooh..ahh..ouch".
funny you should ask this
last nite my mom and i were up til 3 AM just talking/crying/yelling
Now, not that it matters what ghair laug think, but if a random person were to c my mother…wearing her burka..doesn’t do the small talk crap, stays home, doesn’t work, doesn’t have 8 hundred desi auntie friends, etc etc , they’d think she had a pretty sad life, being dominated by her husband…
my mother (and i’m showing signs of this too) is like a mother bear…shes ferocious if you piss her or me or my brother or my dad off. She will fight like crazy to protect the ones she loves.
I told her last nite, that I could never do half the things she’d done for my brother and me, I could never live up to that. She said that u learn…once u have kids, most things come instinctively and as soon as u hold that lil baby in ur arms for the first time, ur feelings change.
i lowe my ammi…i hope ill be as half as good as she is 
can lesbians become good mothers?
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can lesbians become good mothers?
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Ohh yeah...definetly...
kids are evil, i plan on not having any
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But they can't become one.
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they also can't experiance another aspect of what women can do..but yet that don't stop guys from responding does it now.
but then again..this thread was opened by a guy so theres no issue here at all
:)