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I seriously doubt that, but you can share details …
Sahar02 No. I never said that. But some girls do have reservations about their mothers. Just like some guys have about their father. Being human, they may lack some skills or qualities, which if they had. It would have made positive impact on our personalities. I sort of want to discuss them.
Fita No. Not anything extreme. Just thoughts.
lussi Every human can become a good parent.
Parenting is very difficult job, And if your child grows into reasonably good person, that is a very big achievement :k:
'my ammi is super strict ....'
this is what i used to think in my childhood ....n well, she was back then ...specially with me as i was her first child n she wanted to mould me into as perfect one as possible....
but time told me she's nothing else than a best of friend .....
religious , supportive , caring , forgiving n funny ...all at the same time
though i know , i'm not half as good as she was .....
but still , wherever i think she was mistaken ,....i try not to go that way
despite trying hard enough , i know i'm too strict when it comes to manners n discipline .....
only time will tell if i was a good mother or not...
My husband thinks that kids need to have lots of confidence from the very beginning, that its okay if they are naughty and not allways political correct, like being neat and behaving proper, as kids loose their confidence if we try to stop them or make them do things they dont want, when they grow older, they dont have enough confidence and are not strong charactor. (Inspite the fact of having a strick mother, he was brought up as they way he want kids to be.)
I, however want to have proper ‘gorah’ kids like they should mind their manners be nice to others, polite, political correct.
So be both have different prospectives, I dont know how our kids will turn out to be, if we ever have any.
I seriously doubt that, but you can share details ...
well, this has less to do with hopping from oneday-care centre to another as u migt think it is. it is more like having many adults taking care of the child, with no single adult providing primary attachment. pretty much like in joint family systems, with dadi phoopi nani rasing the kid as well as the mom.
as for u seriously doubting it, well traditional mother roles and issues are filled with a lot of sacred ideas abt motherood and scientific research has debunked quite a few of those.
I've always been a little worried about that ... I have such ideas of how I'd want to raise my kids, how I'd want them to turn out. Starting from the things I'd want them involved in to the kinds of things I believe my future husband and I would have to do together with them as a family to maintain a healthy environment at home. God ... I sound so fruity. But yeah, my mom was a good mom, a great mom in fact especially with the things she had to deal with in her personal life, too. I do have different ideas on how I'd like to raise my kids though (and yeah, I doubt I'd ever be half the mum or even, the person, she was).
like they should mind their manners be nice to others, polite, political correct.