Re: Will you allow your child?
I would totally okay if my children (son or daughter!) would want to marry outside their culture. I would totally not be okay if my children (son or daughter!) would want to marry outside their religion
Good question. As someone asked me to find someone for him/her.
that person told me same thing they just have to be muslim no matter where they belong from.
I don’t like this idea that much better to marry in your own culture that would be easy for both to adjust.
First I’ll brain wash my daughter ahead of time that I will or want to marry you in my own culture tell her reasons why and what are the reasons not to others. I’m sure after that you wont have problem. You have to remind after a while or in fun or joke and in discussion.
After that even if they ask I’ll say find out if that cultures are not doing anything which you don’t know or wouldn’t like to do or any difference which you wouldn’t mind doing and or you going through.
Like Sindhis do lots of adla badla shadi marry more then 1 so I will tell all. Ask her to research about that culture try to find that too and tell her and say if its good then say yes if not will say no and explain why yes or no.
If its not time for your girl and she is just asking to know then say it depends on who or which culture you chose and will be told to you at the time when time will come after finding things.
Tell her what are the good things in your own culture and others.
It depends on the age of the child if it is time for her to choose or just to tell her out of curiosity.
Just say it will depend on time and person and your and parents liking.