Re: Wife's Earnings
***Pakistani society has very clearly pre-defined roles for a woman and a man within a marriage. The woman takes care of the house and kids and the man supports the home and is the provider and bread-winner ! Our society has not evolved into the Western culture as much as these ppl want us to believe !
Nowadays some men wanna settle the "score" in the name of "equality" but all they want is a bank balance they can dip into without having to get off their fatasses to actually earn or make themselves cabable of earning to sufficiently support a house-hold.
Well if you want equality and are so "supportive" of a woman earning and paying your bills and rent then you should be ready to be a proper house husband which involves cooking her meals , cleaning the house ,sweeping the floors taking out the trash , taking care of the kids , taking them to school and doctor's appts etc. However at that point is when they suddenly remember they are "men" !
So what in fact they really want is a woman who will earn and support them , then come home and take care of their meals and kids too.
A woman who earns or has a career should be alllowed to have the choice of whether she wants to work or not and her earnings are hers to do with. In cases of financially difficult times , she can contribute to the household financially but at the end of the day its a husband's duty to provide for her.
I wonder all these men who are going on about equality and balancing the scores would they be saying the same thing when it comes to their daughters !