What is the difference between a wife and a girlfriend to you?
Why do Pakistani men treat their girlfriends differently than their wives???.. Why can’t desi men be fair?
Rules for wife: STRICT
Rules for girlfriend: CHILL
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because wife represents him and his family. she is meant to be his reputation.
a girlfriend doesn't and he can leave her at anytime and have a new girlfriend.
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Are you alright?
Do you realize that this is an absurd amount of generaltization?
OK. Just to ask you in similar way and see your response…
Which drug did you consume before making this generalized comment? 
Perhaps something ‘good enough’ to knock the senses altogether.
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What is the difference between a wife and a girlfriend to you?
Why do Pakistani men treat their girlfriends differently than their wives???... Why can't desi men be fair? Rules for wife: STRICT Rules for girlfriend: CHILL
They are the despos, the guys who just wanna play with girls. I don't think a person who really really cares about his GF will treat her any different.
At least I know I won't. You should give them respect, be it your GF or your wife.
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because wife represents him and his family. she is meant to be his reputation.
a girlfriend doesn't and he can leave her at anytime and have a new girlfriend.
Typical desi rhetoric. Shows quite clearly that it's women, even more then men who contribute to the oppression of other women. As a women yourself, you should know better.
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Typical desi rhetoric. Shows quite clearly that it's women, even more then men who contribute to the oppression of other women. As a women yourself, you should know better.
Huh???? please explain in easy english. i am failing to understand what exactly you are trying to say here.
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yes. Well said.
Women are the worst enemies of women and try to blame men for it.
Unfortunately it is true in a lot of situations.
Some female guppies are united (sure), but the cause is not other woman’s benefit.
They care less of other womans feelings. Pathetic attitude.
It’s the hatred of men or in-laws, (especially mother in law or sister in law) which makes these hateful women united.
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Typical desi rhetoric.
you wanted coconut rhetoric??
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Huh???? please explain in easy english. i am failing to understand what exactly you are trying to say here.
If you fail to understand English, it's not my fault. However, I'll break it down for you.
You said:
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because wife represents him and his family. she is meant to be his reputation.
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I was saying that this is what desis typically say about women. Ke "Aurat ghar ki izat hai" and all that crap.
I was saying that this whole mentality is messed up and that you, as a women yourself, should not condone it because this mentality always goes against women.
You understand? Ya phir urdu mein likhun?
BTW, I assume you are a *girl, *because few men have a picture of Ashwariya Rai as their display pic and fewer still have a album of her pics in their profiles.
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because wife represents him and his family. she is meant to be his reputation.
a girlfriend doesn't and he can leave her at anytime and have a new girlfriend.
One of my acquiantances has been married to a Canadian Pakistani girl and they have a beautiful daughter , however, the man cheats on his wife every week. He enjoys his time with girlfriends, spends money on them, and party. Sometimes, he would have a long-term girlfriend too. This guy was born in Pakistan which is kinda scary then moved to Canada.... He is a PLAYBOY and he is very well aware of the fact that he is not a good father!!! .. Why would you treat ur wife piece of ****? He can have all this fun with her too.. Allah please save me from a man like him.. THANKS.... I have seen more situation similar to the experience that I have presented on this post. I dont like double-standards!
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BTW, I assume you are a *girl, *because few men have a picture of Ashwariya Rai as their display pic and fewer still have a album of her pics in their profiles.
oye Aishwariya..... :P ..... I think women should help men get rid off this type of mentality.... "Aurat ghar ki izat hai".... We are not an object!
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Dangerous generalisation.
If two people are not committed to marrying each other then their relationship is a fling. I hope that answers your question. And a guy can also easily say ''why do women treat a husband differently than their boyfriends''
Generalisations wherever done are wrong.
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Also typing ‘‘ladies stay out’’ you do know every lady will come in this thread and vice versa 
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Dangerous generalisation.
If two people are not committed to marrying each other then their relationship is a fling. I hope that answers your question. And a guy can also easily say ''why do women treat a husband differently than their boyfriends''
Generalisations wherever done are wrong.
Men treating their girlfriends differently than their wives is not a generalization because I have seen it with my own eyes in many siutations!!!... A boy wont argue much with their girlfriend but argue alot with their wife....I know a man who prays 5times/day, makes his wife wear a hajab , but he has girlfriends on side for entertainment and fun because he cant have fun with his wife.... "SHE IS A WIFE" OH MY GOS, WHAT A BIG DEAL!!!! Society is probably playing a factor here.
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^
I’ve seen it the other way around
:khums:
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hahahahahah 
Shak, what is your take on men’s cheating behavior? With girlfriends, they have more fun & spends money on them. “Wife is for HOME” 
wink wink…hahaha
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Ya whatever man, your brain probably can’t even comprehend what I’m trying to say. but whatever makes you sleep better at night…
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Shak, what is your take on men's cheating behavior? With girlfriends, they have more fun & spends money on them. "Wife is for HOME" wink wink...hahaha
Whoever cheats is the lowest of the low in my book.