O my lord are u disillusion or wat? cant u just simply see that he said:
“i don’t want you talking to your male friends cuz i don’t either, based on my Islamic beliefs”
In your last 2 posts you have interpreted it as follows:
“Girl shouldn’t talk because she should keep her marriage and compromise”
“Girl shouldn’t talk cuz her husband doesn’t like the particular man” based on your personal example, which is not the case as he doesn’t dislike someone in particular)
She is probably being defensive about this cuz its insulting to doubt her intentions with anyone (male or female) when she is married to someone!