Knowing a couple that was one meat eater and one vegan. Now both are vegan so yeah you do start eating salads. However I as a guy with some female friends, I do limit my time with my female friends if my wife is uncomfortable about it and I do share with her every single bit of information to ensure my wife feels comfortable about the matter. Its called compromise. If my wife ever disliked a woman she would be out of my life. My wife is priority. My wife is important to me.
I get the whole change aspect as women dislike change for a man. They feel like they are losing part of themselves for the sake of a man. What women fail to realize in marriage is that everybody changes.Single women don’t get it. Married women do. All men get it. It is an important aspect of life. I have changed during my period of dating and now in marriage. If you aren’t changing during your marriage and relationships and not making adjustments for the other person, you are the problem. Not the spouse.