Wife has male friends.

Zafra · June 30, 2013, 7:48am

Re: Wife has male friends.

Reality check below:

Friends are friends, male or female really doesn’t matter..burai dil ya demag mein ho to aaj kal female to female boundaries cross honey ke chances zayda hai..burai har jaga hai agar dil mein ho (just saying!)

You knew her before marriage and that she is liberal, agar uska lifestyle pasnd nai tha to shadi kyun kari?

RESPECT YOUR WIFE ENOUGH TO ACCEPT HER LIFESTYLE CHOICES NOW, THIS IS HOW SHE HAS LIVED HALF HER LIFE & JUST BECAUSE SHE SIGNED A CONTRACT WITH YOU SHE WONT DISOWN HER FRIENDS AND FOR YOU TO ASK IS UNFAIR!

(Please understand she is a person, a HUMAN BEING not a jalebi in a frying pan that will adopt to the shape you want her to take)

Set an example, be patient (may take a month or 50 years) if you learn from your mom, unho ne apko emitional blackmail, mar kar ya jhagra kar ke to yeh sabak nai sikhaya hoga im sure! she set an example for you..the example was so pure that you adopted it as a lifestyle. Don’t have confrontations with her regarding this, show her and make her feel that no other girl/friend is above & beyond her and she is the only friend you need..trust me we women are emotional fools, as soon as she feels this all other things will become irrelevant!
BUT YOU GOTA BE PATIENT (may take a month or 50 years)!

Just cuz u don’t believe in something don’t expect woh bi shadi kartey he will believe in what u believe in. Be practical please, it may hurt u i understand but you are being unreasonable. Jahan tak Islam ki baat hai, i understand that you never made any girl-friends because it wasn’t allowed in Islam, im sure kafi aisi chizein hongi that u dint do according to islam..koi bhi 100% islami nai hosakta.

Similarly there might be some things that she is following and you aren’t according to Islam..isliye in sab mein religion nai aye to behtar he hai! To say ke meine kiya yeh according to islam and meri biwi nahi karti is** WRONG**! cuz if u point one finger at other..four of them are pointing back at you!

Abhi abhi shadi huwi hai, aisa hota hai..kisiko khaney ka taste nai pasand ata, friends nai pasand atey, frienships nai pasand ati, snoring pasand nai ati, dressing sense samjh nai ata etc etc.. Patience rakho (yeh bhi Islam ki he seekh hai)

Hope it helps!

Yup. Worst advice ever written.