wife had extramarital affair... what to tell family

[Shak]

Re: wife had extramarital affair… what to tell family

@Mezhgan

I really don’t understand the logic of some people. This woman cheated and everyone is making excuses for her? Infidelity is infidelity regardless of whether it is committed by a man or a woman and regardless of the “reasons” they may have for being unfaithful.

It’s ironic that people are stating that a people shouldn’t discuss it or make a big deal out of it because it may affect the children. When a woman posts on here about her husband cheating (or even simply suspecting that he is cheating), people do not show such restraint when discussing the man nor do they advocate it, even when the woman mentions that there are children involved. Another point that gets thrown around in the case of male infidelity is that the woman should divorce the man because infidelity and tolerating infidelity sets a bad example for the children. Does that not apply here?

What the lady said