wife had extramarital affair... what to tell family

[Jasmine_Tea]

Re: wife had extramarital affair… what to tell family

@Touche

brother TLK… the wife is not ready to reconcile…she has almost moved in with the other guy… and this is not her first fling, there was another a few years ago, which he forgave for the sake of child

she has been ignoring the child for sometime now,too engrossed in her own “activities”
i do not agree with your statement here… how does having an immoral woman for a mother going to do the kid any good? and she herself left the child behind

the islamic laws are pretty clear about zina committed by married man and woman… i don’t think they should continue… especially when the wife was given a chance, maybe more than one, in the past and she went back to her old ways

It would be best to leave those to God. That is between her and God.

And the child will be hurt more from learning that his mother left him. He’s young. Spare him the pain. It may never be necessary for the child to learn that. He will of course learn that his mother abandoned him, but the cheating part is not necessary at all.