Muzna
May 11, 2016, 4:03pm
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Re: Wife getting fat
I am sorry, but seems like his wife really isn’t trying to lose weight. I have struggle with weight all my life and it went from bad to worse after having a kid (hormonal imbalance etc.) So i completely agree with all poster who have said it is hard to lose weight after having kids. But I have always made an effort to work out, eat healthy and try to balance everything. My hubby always mentions that too, that at least i am always trying and haven’t given up. Normally, i would be the last person to side with OP. BUT OP’s wife doesn’t seems to be trying and does seems a little lazy.
One salan for 3-4 days…I have a kid and i work full time…but i always manage to make few dishes per week (Sunday cooking), make lunch for my preschooler (healthy stuff at that.)
I am not trying to put her down, but just wondering why isn’t she trying to do anything. OP have you told her who you feel about her image? Maybe she isn’t realizing how you truly feel about the weight and her. Also has she been to a doctor since she had the second baby. I didn’t even realize that I had thyroid issues and 9 months after having my son. I assumed my ‘laziness’ was due to having a csection or a kid.
Let’s remember that we’re only hearing one side.
Not to discredit OP’s position, but I’m sure that the wife will have her own story to tell.
At the very basic level, there are communication issues in this marriage and that could be creating many problems that are not even being addressed in this thread.