Re: Wife getting fat
Nothing shallow about it… it is a real issue and many couples experience this, whether it is the wife getting fat or the husband
Losing attraction to your spouse is scary because it can lead to affairs and other things. The fact that he is seeking help means he still cares.
OP, have a good talk with her. She might be depressed. Depressed people are lazy and selfish and unfortunately nothing can make them crawl out of that dark place unless they have a good support system and professional help.