Re: Wife finding it difficult adjusting
To this whenever she goes home to stay my mum will advise me to allow her to stay as long as she wants and don’t specify a day to come back.
Regarding going back to her parents though I have realised that visiting often is fine but staying all the time isn’t as has been explained by many of the posters here.
Funny thing is sometimes i do think me and my mum or my family in general are a little too soft. We just dont want her to feel like an outsider. The other sister in laws we dont even regard as SILs we have always said they are sisters full stop.