Wife finding it difficult adjusting

[Milly]

Re: Wife finding it difficult adjusting

@ShazasScrapbook

Some people are being hard on her, I think anyway. You guys have only been married for a short while - some people have a harder time adjusting than others. BUT it is hard for most girls overall… especially if you are very family-oriented.
She’s adjusting… so give her time You’re being understanding, and at this point, that’s the most you can do. Once she feels more at “home” and finds her place in your household, she’ll start feeling better.
And yup, job will help ofcourse

I don’t think anyone has said anything too harsh. She is 27 years old. Life is hard for everyone, ask a 7 year old, a 17 year, a 37 year old and they will all claim their life is the hardest. It doesnt matter that one is ‘family orientated’ Life goes on, she hasnt even had that much of a change for her to be depressed over. It’s like she’s choosing to focus her attention on what she doesnt have anymore, something she should have known will come with marriage, rather than try and build a life with what she has been given now. Her husband is being very supportive, if not pandering to her somewhat (dare I say it) immature needs. Yes she needs time, however, give too much time she will continue to rely on her negative thoughts to the point where she wont be able to let go of them. If she was a little younger and had moved to a completely new city where she knew no one, then yes, give her more time, but come on man, she’s 25 mins down the road!