Re: Wife and staying over at parents
Mum stopped working a while ago and is from a different generation entirely, she wakes up for tahajjud and then stays awake all day without further sleep. She eats breakfast earlier than I wake up for work and because she is a little ill she has a blend of food made for the week and she tends to just heat it up at lunch time or my wife will and then eat together with whatever my wife has made for herself. The issue with responsibility is that there is nothing much more to do. My wife would wake up in the morning, brush downstairs and mop and have breakfast but will probably have a cup of tea together with mum as she would have already had something to eat. There is nothing else then to do until lunch time where they would eat together and wash up. Then from around 2ish to around 7 she has nothing to do and just waits for me to get home so she can cook something. Hoovering and cleaning each room and washing/drying clothes doesn’t need to be done everyday so I am aware she gets bored with nothing to do and that’s why I advised her of the things she can do outside the home and that it would be good for her to get out. There is the occasional cleaning doors etc but that’s not everyday.
I am aware but finding her a job but in the meantime I thought she could get out and do something but I don’t force anyone.