Wife and staying over at parents

[Lusi]

Re: Wife and staying over at parents

@najeeb786

Since we had our discussion a while ago I must admit we have not encountered any issues that I can think of. I just wanted to understand from everyone else whether its the norm for the wife to visit her parents for a number of consecutive days per month, a day or two to stay over here and there is the the norm for me but I can’t understand staying over for 5 days in a row per month wanting to spend time with family when you can visit etc.

Thank you and I do understand that each relationship is different and circumstances can be different too hence why I asked here first.

I wouldn’t mind going every weekend to her parents home but I don’t think I would stay over, I can’t even stay over at my siblings homes.

X2 - Don’t get me wrong when she does go back I make the most of my time. Call are made in advance letting friends know I am free for a few days…:-). I remember her going home for a few days once and i was texting and calling her but not much as I had a lot of things to do combined with being out all day with mates and she didn’t like that. Seems like she thought I would be miserable with her not being by my side

I never had an issue with her going to stay over it was mainly the duration.

Thanks everyone with your responses.

I am sorry, I am not understanding the problem. Is she just staying overnight for 4-5 days a month or a week?

I agree with everyone who said, you two should working finding a balance that can keep both of you at peace.