widow women is better then divorced

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so i heard from many aunties k agar widow ya divorced women main say kissi ko choose kerna hay to widow ko kero kion k us k husband ki to death hoye hai .or divorced women main shak hay k pata nahi kayse thee k divorce ho gayee

is main kahan tak sachaaye hai ?

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Re: widow women is better then divorced

On the contrary, I heard that widow are manhoos :smack: All these things are made-up by people, who want to decide someone’s fate, which is obviously not in their hands. Divorce doesn’t mean that its the fault of woman. There may be situations, where Man is responsible for that

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^ bulkay u know wat log yeh bhi kehtay hain k khulla lay lo divorce say behter hay lerki ka character save rahay ga

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yes. This is because culturally divorced ladies are taken as having some character problems :smack:

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widow women is better then divorced

ab Mai Kia Kahoo :bummer:

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And do you believe it?

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so dats y divorced women k ley kaha jata hay k jo bhi ho dhabba to lag gya : (

keh do jo bhi dil main hai

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Sochti hoo kuch Kahoo phir sochti hoo kyu na chup rahoo :snooty:

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bol k lub azaad hain tere

bol paaro ..bol ..ajj bhi na bolee to phir yeh mooqa na aye gaa,boloooooooooooooooooooooooooooo punjabi hero style

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Re: widow women is better then divorced

:emmy: main aap ko aisa lagta hoon

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Re: widow women is better then divorced

aise logon ki aqlon per dhabba hai. When our prophet married divorced / widowed ladies, what the ordinary 2 takke ke log think of themselves.

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Shayed meri bat logon ko achi na lagay,
Is se acha hai Kahoo hi na.

Bas itna Kahoo gi ke widow ya divorce houna bhi qismat Mai likha hota hai is Mai kisi orat ko reject Karna bohot ghalat bat hai.

Aur Wese bhi sab Ki apni apni marzi hai, agar koi kisi divorce ya widow se shadi nahi karna chahta to uski marzi hai Duniya Mai unmarried larkiya bhi bohot hain unse kar Len.

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Muje Kia pata app Kesey lagte hain aur kesey nahi :snooty:

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haan prophet(salal aalho alyhi wasalam) ki misaal dain to hamray culture main ik jumla mashoor hai ..**aray woh to nabi thay un ki kia bat kertay ho hum to kamzoor insan hain

**behrhaal masla yeh hota hay k hum yeh sun jannay k bawjudd k jo log aysee baatain kertay hain un ki zayhniyat ka koi mayar nahi to perwa kion kerain ..lakin kahen na kahen in batoon say depression zaroor ho jata hai

app ka khiyaal to naik hai ..per y u said bura lagay ga ..app kaho ..kisi ko bura nahi lagta

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^ nahi bas itna kaffi tha.

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This is all due to keeping Quran enveloped in Jazdaan and just respecting the Prophet emotionally without knowing what he taught and what message he conveyed.

You are right ke dil dukhta hai, but these things were part of our culture, our religions never supported these ideas. We still follow our culture more than religion.

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Do you remember my ’ I’m shocked’ thread in ‘life1’?

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Haan, and let me ask you why were you shocked? I remember you wrote your friend want to a marry a widow.

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no sachaye at all…the marital status doesnt tell you abt a persons character..and its the character & compatibility which matters.

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ok jaysay app ko munasib lagay : )

exactly ..iman ki kamzore