Why you aren't married

Tracy McMillan: Why You’re Not Married

Don’t shoot the messenger - ME! I just read it. And decided to post it :smiley:

And its written by a woman.

2 for me! Didn't need the article lady to tell me that lol

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lol Interesting article. I found this one in answer to what Tracy McMillan said:

Brienne Walsh: An Open Letter to the Women Who Are Telling Me It’s My Fault I’m Not Married

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Just going through the first page of comments and most ppl are saying it's a great article. Smh.

so she knows how to get married...just not how to stay married..... not that there's anything against divorcees but seriously, you're bashing single women, calling them b*tches, shallow, sluts, liars, selfish etc for not being married.....pehle khud ko dekho before criticizing others on a wide-scale basis.

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Haven’t read some so entertaining in a while.

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It sounds bad coming from her, given her background, but I think the part about casual sex (or even casual relationships) and selfishness is true, for both men and women. Our generation is all about me, myself, and I.

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^ yeah I agree no one should be a slut, man or woman.....but...she's calling women out on everything...not men.

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this was funny :rotfl:

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selfishness eh?...im not sure if living an easy married life with your husband only focusing on creating a home for yourself is selfish or not getting married until later in your life bc of trying to help people on a bigger scale by educating yourself and struggling to get to that position where you can actually make a difference is selfish. its all about perspective.

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^ I'm referring to selfishness on the part of both men and women, and furthermore, in the context of the article, I'm clearly referring to people who cannot give up their independence for the sake of a marriage. I'm not sure what your point is.

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Number 3 :blush:

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Where is the "I'm not married because all men are dogs" part? -_-

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Go PCG! :snooty:

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Maybe she knows from experience. It's easy to start attacking her personally, but the truth is:

  • Women tend to value marriage more than men.
  • Marriage rates are dropping across the U.S.
  • Yes, men have their issues (They are "dogs" as BarbieCue -- a moderator no less, has said) yet women can not be criticized for their shortcomings?

If men are so horrible don't subject yourself to the agony of marriage -- its simple as that. The world will be better off for it.

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Mein mazaaq kitta si :( They can't be dogs coz dogs are supposed to be faithful! runs

BBQ tussi barrey mazakiey ho :cb:

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Next thing you're gonna say having babies and raising them is selfish too. :/

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A lousy article!
People like to do what makes them happy and fulfilled.Be it getting married and having bunch of babies or becoming CEO of one of the fortune 500. Everyone is selfish and there is nothing wrong wit it.