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Next thing you're gonna say having babies and raising them is selfish too. :/
your words, not mine.
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I think you’re using the meme incorrectly
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Next thing you're gonna say having babies and raising them is selfish too. :/
ive heard this being said more than once on this forum...
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Isn't this the lady whose husband turned out GAY?
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I blogged about this last year - you’re late to the game with old news 
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Hmm...as a single woman I have so much to say in response to all this ...
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Rude.
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Should know this but don't. What is a meme?
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Mein mazaaq kitta si :( They can't be dogs coz dogs are supposed to be faithful! runs
Sorry I don't understand your language. As for the English part: Do you feel the same way about your father, brothers/cousins/friends (if you have any?)?
This is a shameful display from a moderator.
For others: I am sure you all would be clapping and cheering a man who wrote an article bashing other men. Hey, I don't mind, women who get this defensive and start attacking another women's characters have bigger inner issues than that. Seriously, where is all this hate coming from? Most women, particularly Pakistani, are amazing in real life. Hope you like your life.
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IMO Bcue was making a harmless joke.
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IMO Bcue was making a harmless joke.
Southie, hate is hate. Whether you do it online or in real life.
We need to move past these ridiculous arguments. Whether you agree or disagree with the article in question, the outright irrational and foaming at the mouth attacks by some of these members are absolutely ridiculous. Unless this article applies to you directly, there is no reason to get this defensive.
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Southie, hate is hate. Whether you do it online or in real life.
We need to move past these ridiculous arguments. Whether you agree or disagree with the article in question, the outright irrational and foaming at the mouth attacks by some of these members are absolutely ridiculous. Unless this article applies to you directly, there is no reason to get this defensive.
I have not read the article - I just read Bcues joke about men vs dogs and gave my opinion.
No idea why the word defensively was used in the last sentence. Are we in an offensives mood today!
Anyway I am out.
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Maybe she knows from experience. It's easy to start attacking her personally, but the truth is:
and I stand by what I said--she knows how to land a man but not to keep one.
Again, in the big picture, I have nothing against divorced men/women and some of them can give the best advice about marriage but when you use your own experiences and then tear down other women, then you can't expect your own experiences to not be called into question.
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and I stand by what I said--she knows how to land a man but not to keep one. Again, in the big picture, I have nothing against divorced men/women and some of them can give the best advice about marriage but when you use your own experiences and then tear down other women, then you can't expect your own experiences to not be called into question.
I am sorry I missed the part where she was tearing down other women by name.
Clearly you do have something against her (divorces), because she is highlighting something perhaps came out of her experiences and you would rather tear her down by highlighting her background.
Fine, she may not be able to keep a man, but what about those women who can't even land one in the first place? Surely they exist.
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Clearly you do have something against her (divorces), because she is highlighting something perhaps came out of her experiences and you would rather tear her down by highlighting her background.
I can see it how you can see it that way.
Yes, I'm bringing up her divorces because she's giving marriage on how to get married, advice in a manner that I find full of flaws, not to mention just petty and mean. calling other women sluts and b*tches doesn't exactly make you an expert on relationships.
I don't see how that is so hard to comprehend?
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oh goodness gracious pak-one bhaijaan! Barbiecue was only kidding. 
. Mods are allowed to live, now aren’t they? Lekin pata nahi aap kyun itney jazbaati ho rahe hain is article pe? I mean it’s just a freaking article, not God’s word. Just because she wrote it doesn’t mean it’s now engraved in black and white that if you aren’t married you’ve got to be one of the stated categories.
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I can see it how you can see it that way.
Yes, I'm bringing up her divorces because she's giving marriage on how to get married, advice in a manner that** I find full of flaws, not to mention just petty and mean. calling other women sluts and b*tches doesn't exactly make you an expert on relationships. **
I don't see how that is so hard to comprehend?
You can disagree with her on the bolded part alone.
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So your saying that if a male member of GS called “all women are XYZ” as joke, he would not have hundreds of women members jumping down on him? Especially if it was a moderator? The response would be totally different. I am offended as a man.
I don’t even care about the article, it was really interesting to see all these responses – how attacks were personalized, men were called dogs etc.
Anyways, I have made my point.