Why women are totally oblivious and incapable of time management

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**Women are totally oblivious and incapable of time management

It is the simple, indisputable universal truth. (No smart a** sissy man can tell me “Bhai Saab you are stuck with the wrong one”)
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It is true that guys are:

  • **Messy **(my car and office is he living proof of that)
  • disorganized (get ready for a trip 5 minutes before they leave)
  • **Lose things **(keys, glasses, thumb drives, wallets, wedding rings)
  • Insensitive (according to women)
  • and more…

**but for sure men are (almost) never late. **

In fact I think that since a guy just puts on a pair of pants and a t-shirt that falls in the category of:

  • Looks fine and
  • Smells fine,

he doesn’t have to waste so much time in getting ready.

Women on the other hand:

  • First have to try on several dresses
  • Try on many sets of jewelry to find a match
  • Try on several pair of shoes to find a match
  • Be upset because the dress they wore in their high school graduation is too small
  • Be upset because they look fat in whatever they finally selected to wear. (in most cases they don’t look fat at all)
  • Put unnecessary makeup to cover for some faults men never see anyway.

What’s the point?

Guys can’t tell the difference between two dresses or if her hair is different than it was the day before.

Ladies (men are also welcome), care to explain the dilemma ?

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Re: Why women are totally oblivious and incapable of time management

Yeahhhh...BUT if women didn't make the effort...you guys would be the first to complain!

Timepass-Jan 2013
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Re: Why women are totally oblivious and incapable of time management

:lifey: Exactly what Kurripunjaban said.

If we would not spend that much tim on getting ready etc, you lot would say that we ‘have let go of ourselves’:snooty:

Can’t win!

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whilst women accept a man in any size and shape and huliya ... you men really creep us ladies ... with your expectations and nakhray from us and then unending complaining of "why-do-women" questions !

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Re: Why women are totally oblivious and incapable of time management

The thread is about time management. Nothing against you getting ready and looking pretty and taking hours

Point is even if you knew the party is next month on Saturday at 8 pm, you will still not be ready on time ...

How do you explain this ?

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Re: Why women are totally oblivious and incapable of time management

You're stuck with the wrong one.

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Copy cat....

I consider this a personal attack but I forgive you because you are just being a woman...:)

Usually people do this when they have nothing intelligent to add to conversation and in case of women, it is always the case.

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Re: Why women are totally oblivious and incapable of time management

Some people are good at time management and some are not. Has nothing to do with gender:)

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I agree but we are talking about majority. Majority of women are like that and majority of men are as my opening remarks say, never late

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lolz....that was a joke. i think it's the other way around.

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blaming women for everything that goes wrong isnt really the best attitude...

I think its an individual attitude.. and either gender shouldnt be generalized as "incapable" of time management...

professionally both men and women learn timekeeping and if they dont they get similar treatment from their bosses.

in the personal life , a woman has to get hubby ready, kids ready and finally herself ready ... and just because she gets you ready before her ownself , doesnt really mean she is incapable of time management... it just means she prioritized you and kids over herself ...

it helps looking at the positive aspect !

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Apology accepted sister............LOL

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Very well said but faaaaaaaar from reality...

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Prove me wrong ... :@:

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I know I am good in proving realities...

but not that good that I can accomplish what no man has ever accomplished since Hazrat Adam (asw)...:)

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this seems more a case of angoor khattay hein ... lol

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I know some men who are rarely on time. I know guy who are not messy, not disorganized, don't lose things, and are usually not insensitive.

I know women who are messy, are disorganized, do lose things, and are insensitive.

I also know women who hate shopping, are quick shoppers, and don't care much for makeup.

Basically not every man and woman is the same.

I think it's WISE **to try on clothes before buying them. It's such a **HASSLE to go back to the store to return ill-fitting things. And why would you want to spend money on things that your are not fully satisfied with? For a guy, it might be easier to remember his shirt size and buy several shirts without trying them on. BUT some articles of clothing.......HAVE to be tried on because they fit various parts of your body differently. And sometimes material of the cloth plays a role as well. One might wear a size 3 in dress pants......but they are going to fit differently depending on whether they are cotton, denim, corduroy. Some cloth materials fit the body tighter/looser.

Keep in mind......that women have** MORE** choices in styles. There are boot cut jeans, low-rise jeans, flare jeans......etc. And a blouse might fit fine in the sleeves but be otherwise loose all over. Dress pants might be fit fine but be tooo long in length. Or they might fit fine at the waist but not at the thighs. It's always better to try your clothes on before buying them. It saves a lot of time in the long run.

About SHOES.......it seems reasonable to try on shoes and make sure that they fit and are comfortable to wear before buying them. Also, it's sensible to match shoes to clothes. Otherwise it does look odd. Recently I saw a woman wearing a HOT PINK outfit with RED SHOES........it looked UNATTRACTIVE.....and she couldn't pull that look off even though she was a celebrity.

About WEIGHT.......it's good to be careful about your weight. BUT I DO THINK IT"S ANNOYING to ask people if you've gotten fatter, especially your hubby....because he may not answer honestly to spare your feelings..

In my opinion....if YOU as an INDIVIDUAL think you are FAT....then YOU should do something about it. What matters is what YOU think and KNOW is best for YOU and YOUR health.

About Makeup.........The flaws might not be noticeable to you.....but they are noticeable to the person who carries them. And if a woman wants to wear makeup to feel good about herself.....big deal. It's human nature to want to look your best. It may not always be a top priority with men....but even guys like to take care of themselves or wish to look good and well-groomed.

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Re: Why women are totally oblivious and incapable of time management

If time management is an issue with your significant other (male or female)....then talk about the issue about how much it bothers you. Tell them in advance the time you expect them to to be READY to leave the house. For example......We're leaving the house by 7:30......so I'd appreciate it if you can be completely ready by that time. And perhaps an hour before the time.....remind the person to start getting ready. Help the person with responsibilities (such as getting kids ready, wrapping a gift, cooking).....and that way they can work on getting ready themselves. Set time deadlines, if it helps.

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You can find an exception to pretty much anything....but

As most of world's main issues, this thread is about majority not 'some'.

If you talk about exceptions, I can definitely find few women who, unlike you, will face the reality and will 100% agree with me without trying to fight a lost battle...

But then again we are talking about the majority not exceptions...

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Re: Why women are totally oblivious and incapable of time management

As long as we r ready on time, doesn't matter how long we take to get ready...