why women are nasty between themselves?

I know women who are just nasty no matter what, and think they’re the most awesome person in the world. May god help the first woman to walk away from a group of three.* Are they many women who are mean with others? What is your experiences? Thank you :slight_smile:

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Thank goodness we are men.

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Generally yes. How much of it is hornones who knows, or a biologic need for a woman to seek satisfaction from a man emanating from primal mating practices hardwired into the ancient part of our brains, who knows. Or maybe some of it is taught by the environment. But I have seen a number of catty women. Non-catty women, over the past 10 years, I can think of 2-3 girls I know who just do not have it in them to hurt a fly.

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the root cause of jealousy among women is unquestionably the JEALOUSY factor!

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:smack: The root cause of jealousy is insecurity, not jealousy itself.

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i still believe it’s jealousy…i’ll shut up now because you are a teacher and i must NOT argue with a teacher! :smiley: right? :slight_smile:

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:rolleyes:

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Lolx, wo kehte hain larki ki jaan kb nikalti hai ?
Jb wo same apne jesa karhayi wala suit kaam wali maasi ko pehne dekh le ;)

Baqi batein tou bht duur ki baat hain :D

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i think its quite sad and i dont understand. If women were more understanding of each other they'd be supportive of each other's life choices (to work or stay home), be supportive when other women reach higher positions rather than be jealous. If women understood each other and supported each other these debates between saas-bahu, working vs stay at home mums etc would not exist. Unfortunately this is because they are jealous, insecure and like to feel good by keeping other women down. This way they retain some power in a world where that is the maximum power some women can obtain. So when they have a position of power like the saas or the bhabhi they take full advantage of it. because either of insecurities or Unfortunately few women believe in real feminism or any feminism because it is seen as a "bad" word. The real downfall of women today is their lack of ability to empathise with others. Can't really complain at men when women collude to be part of the system and to keep women down. So as females we should get our own home in order, so to speak, before criticising guys and how they are unsupportive.

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I guess one of the reason is because we female are more expressive by nature unlike men. If we do not like or feel insecure/jealous from some other woman/girl we cannot help expressing it by either of our actions/words and behavior. And jealously and insecurities in between men are same as women its just men are good at concealing their emotions. ?

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:hehe: Lol once i saw a maid passing by wearing same shawal as one i just had bought and had not used it even for once i made the driver to stop the car to just take a good look. :emmy: if that girl is wearing that same shawal and it was actually same as mine :hayaa: and i ended up replaceling the shawal with an other print. :sid:

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i am realising in my latter years that true friendship does exist sometimes but otherwise its all bs and time pass ke liye. You consider a friend close and you give her a friendship bracelet or best friends necklace and then few months you realise she lost it or didnt value it. It was all faltu till she found another close friend. All that is high school days but still. Friends are fickle these days. No more do dostis like Sholay exist. especially among female friends. when was the last time there was a movie revolving around female friendship like Sholay, Dil chahta hai etc? Female friendship has always been undervalued and something limited after a time. After marriage female friends hardly see each other much and sometimes talk can turn to jealousy. Male friends rarely ever ditch each other after marriage or say they are too busy to meet up or hang out. Sad but lots of female friendships have an expiry date.

They will ignore your messages, calls for months on end when its all good times. But if something is wrong they will knock on your door and want you to drop everything for them, no matter what responsibilities. Especially if you're single then you're faltu and you have all the time for you but they have no time for you because their day is taken up by so many responsibilities. Matlabi dost. Not everyone but so many in this category it makes me nearly give up on humanity. Insaaniyat ki koi cheez hi nahi. And people who have an aadat of being used will do all that happily for a friend till they realise the giving is unidirectional and you're doing most of it.

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aaaaand here you are asking why women are so nasty to each other.

Hypocrisy much?

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Its sad really

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that’s very naughty of you Maanokhan. Very very bad. jk i can see it happens a lot. But Apni fellow aurat ke saath ye behaviour. Think how happy the maid would feel if she had same shawal as the mallkin. She would show it off to all her friends and walk with her head high in the air. Yeh dekho meri pasand itni achi hai meri fashionable maim ke paas bhi hai. Unke saath rehka maine kitna kuch seekhe. Unki high fashion taste has rubbed off on me. Think of the chances to bring someone with less than you momentary happiness.

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Women are nasty everywhere.

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arre yaar aisi baatein mat karo. auntyji says it will affect type of rishta chances. kya keh rahein ho. Are you saying all women are nasty or women who are nasty are everywhere.

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She wasn't being nasty to the maid directly, was she?

Much, hypocrisy is much. Aapki kasam.

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I think men stick to their friends because I feel after marriage they mostly pave the way for who the couple will be mostly hanging out with. Then u have to end up making friends with their friends' wives. And if they are the boring kind, "Aur kya haal hae, Aapkay ammi Abu theek thaak Haen, bachon ka school Kaesa ja raha hae " wagera wagera, u wouldn't want to drag ur old friends into that. The husbands colleagues spouses I was meeting would be looking at my face with nothing to add if I brought something remotely interesting up , current affairs, social issues, (simple) scientific discoveries, health issues whatever. U have to brave the boredom on ur own. And keep ur fun normal friends seperate (and since my fun normal friends live in another country, it's geographically impossible to bring them together).

aaaaand here you are asking why women are so nasty to each other.

Hypocrisy much?
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Hypocrisy? :konfused: How enlightened me please?