I think men stick to their friends because I feel after marriage they mostly pave the way for who the couple will be mostly hanging out with. Then u have to end up making friends with their friends' wives. And if they are the boring kind, "Aur kya haal hae, Aapkay ammi Abu theek thaak Haen, bachon ka school Kaesa ja raha hae " wagera wagera, u wouldn't want to drag ur old friends into that. The husbands colleagues spouses I was meeting would be looking at my face with nothing to add if I brought something remotely interesting up , current affairs, social issues, (simple) scientific discoveries, health issues whatever. U have to brave the boredom on ur own. And keep ur fun normal friends seperate (and since my fun normal friends live in another country, it's geographically impossible to bring them together).
After marriage do you miss your close friends you had before marriage? What about your best/closest friend before marriage? Do you try to meet up if possible?
that’s very naughty of you Maanokhan. Very very bad. jk i can see it happens a lot. But Apni fellow aurat ke saath ye behaviour. Think how happy the maid would feel if she had same shawal as the mallkin. She would show it off to all her friends and walk with her head high in the air. Yeh dekho meri pasand itni achi hai meri fashionable maim ke paas bhi hai. Unke saath rehka maine kitna kuch seekhe. Unki high fashion taste has rubbed off on me. Think of the chances to bring someone with less than you momentary happiness.
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First of all she was not my own maid she was a passing by maid plus if i kept same shawal i would get to hear from nasty girls that the shawal i am wearing they have been seeing it on maids as in its out of fashion and people have been used it and passed on it to their maids.
I am not sure how it makes me a hypocrite but if it does then i cannot deny that i am hypocrite. Although i was not rude to that girl by any means. :s