Not for me friend. In general. I am already engaged. But I see so many youngsters wasting away their time with non muslims, both male and female ones!
There is NOTHING wrong with scanning an area like a wedding for a potential. I am just saying, its the most fertile area for such things and should be encouraged officially. Its utter stupidity to hide the other sex, especially if its an event where the community shows up! Isn’t that a bit idiotic?
You live in the states. Your kids go to school in public, they eat in public, they do things in public infront of everyone else. Yet when it comes to your own community you hide your kids. Thats probably the most amazingly absurd things I have ever heard of. There is nothing wrong with segregated unions. It really promotes a healthier community in the long run.