Yeah, you’re right.
The thing is, sometimes (just sometimes) I think maybe we should have gotten married when we were like 18 because we didnt have so many filters in our minds. I think with age/education/time we tend to become more cautious and less liable to take a risk. We want things to be just so and not really willing to put a lot of work in. THis isnt specific to anyone, just a general observation.
The reason Im talking about this is because people dont really meet or judge each other the way they used to. If he has an accent, he is a FOB and therefore unworthy of a second glance.
Divorces happen because we look at superficial things and dont really consider what really makes up a marriage. What makes up a marriage? What is important here? I know you’re talking about preferences and chemistry and taste and it makes perfect sense. But why cant we be more forgiving? Why cant we try to look past these things and see something that might be more substantial?
Do you see what Im saying here red?