as-salik salaams sis
I can relate to u soo much im in a kind of similar situations
I have an older sis we got on soo well before she got married lekin after she got married she changed soo much towards me...during her wedding me and her hubbys cousin kind of fell for eachother at that point i told her that i liked him n she had heard from somewhere that he also was crazy about me
At the time he lived in pak we all came back to the UK...about 2 years after seeing the guy (i was still in love with him) we got in touch over msn n we got to know eachother alot better i hadnt told my sis because we had drifted apart but she found out...since then she turned really *****y towards me...she did everythng n anythng in her power to cause problems at home for me she told my mum that me n him were in touch wen his family came 4 the rishta she tried her utmost best to not let me and him happen
Finally after a great stand to my mum we got engaged a few months ago...but yet still she is causing problems fillin my mums ears in against him n his famly (my mum listens to her alot esp in ths department cuz she is the onli one who knows that fam well as she is married in to the fam) i knw she is doing it out of spite
shes always doing her best to put me down but y?? y cnt she jus giv up mkin my life hell n just b happy 4 me?
she is still stirin crap but me n my fiance knws wat she is like.....
could she be jealous? im alot more educated than her...i have alot more freinds than her n i got who i wanted to marry? o n i recently got a job in the governemnt n she expressed no happiness at all 4 me
to my mum shes the good samaritan...there is no point in my tellin my mum otherwse because my mum already thinks i put my fiance n his family b4 my own
Awww I feel for you.
Is your fiance much better in any or manys ways than her husband? I sure he would be.
Yes she is jealous of that.
Don't worry be happy. At least you got engaged and get married.