Why so FAT after the marriage?

Re: Why so FAT after the marriage?

I wonder if you guys who think all women after marriage get ugly and fat think of your mothers. Was your mother so bad to look at that you decide to discredit an entire race? You think she had time to hit a treadmill after wiping the shiiit from your butts or feeding you the food she worked so damn hard to cook, you spoiled stupid lazy boys who don't even deserve a beautiful woman coz of ur damn shallowness.

My mother was thin when she and my dad got married; then after yrs of babies, miscarriages, and early menopause, she gained a LOT of weight. To his credit my dad never bugged her about losing weight or called her ugly or anything AND he never looked at other women or had gfs on the side like most guys nowadays would, judging by teh responses here. Instead he went to hajj and prayed she'd want to lose weight on her own, and she did....