Re: why should we adjust?
Here i am agreed with Sara516... Why did you marry him in first place when you knew that you would have to live in Pakistan? Now if you have to live here then why complains...... try to take action rather than complaining. Why are you compromising only... can't you talk to your husband what do you want in your life. If you want a better life and you want to do it by doing a job then convince him.
You know what I have observed in you? You have given up. You just think that you can't do anything now and you have got stuck in Pakistan. Many women are living here and having a successful family and professional life. You can do whatever you want to do.
Woh kia kehty hain something like that "when there is a will there is a way".
I so agree with you..