why should we adjust?

[NomiCA]

Re: why should we adjust?

@Xtron

Secondly, Financial situation, lifestyle, and where you going to live is settled well before marriage. It is called “planning”. I am someone’s son too and love my parents to death but there is a time in man’s life where he has to balance his relationship between his parents and how HE wants to live life. In your story, i don’t see any compromise by your husband. It seems he always wanted to live in Pakistan and you didn’t. This is the root cause of the problem.

It was decided before…as she said it herself…and she did agreed to it…