Why should men/Guys always pay for Ladies/Gals?

Inspired from a question by Paki Larka.. :slight_smile:

Why should Men /Guys pay all Hotel,restaurant ,Travel etc expense while on dates?

Here in Bangalore I know some even pay for the Mobile charges!!!The Lady/Gal asks her partner to recharge the phone ,just to allow him to speak with her :smack:

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Because if you don't pay, your not gonna get any where near that girl tomorrow :@:

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But on a more serious note:

I think its very stupid, how girls empty their bf's pockets like he's her dad or something. And i have seen it for the most part in Pk with the phone charges and soo many other things, like gf never buys a toffa but the bf always has too.

But the other thing is, with stupid girls like that, only stupid guys are with them becuase he buys her stuff and she gives him stuff .

I dont know any of those kinda guys!

Men shouldn't. Here's my take on this: initial dinners and meetings that mean nothing but eventually may build to a more serious relationship - both people should pay their own expenses. Period. Once you start getting comfy, it's more serious then it honestly doesn't matter who pays for what, that'd become secondary.

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coz mostly guys does work…thats y:cb:

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^ Ic............. what abt in the case of `both working' partners?

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thn also guy hav to pay:lol

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^ Why?

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Anyone know where I could find a guy like that ??? :chai:

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It's more traditional for a man to pay...this is just how its been for centuries now. Some men prefer to pay and refuse (sometimes even get offended) if a woman offers....this has been my experience. I always offer to pay ( i have yet to see a man accept this offer)and see nothing wrong with a woman paying from time to time.

Times have changed, economy is bad :D
hence....men and women are more willing to split the bill or take turns paying these days.

as far as phone bills, and emptying out a guys wallet....it's just wrong for a woman to do that unless it's with her husband, or father.

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Guys SHOULD genuinely offer to pay. It's so cheap and tacky otherwise. A girl should likewise offer to pay.

This money business is so gross. Esp when people keep tabs or always go dutch to make sure you are always even. It's quite foul and one of my pet hates.

:k: agreed

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cuz men n women are really not equal. and since most of the societies are patriarchal so men like to show-off that they really have the power.

ok..j/k i think its a nice gesture, but i sometimes find it awkward cuz it gives u sense that guys are getting serious about u. and i might be wrong about this cuz may be he only might just giving me a respect, and thats it.

stuff :o you mean grass :confused:

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So its a female saying cuz men n women are really not equal. Why its always like that? and then later on saying that I am neutral for both.

**men like to show-off that they really have the power.

**Its not power but being charming and smart makes it happen. I haven't paid it like this because never got time for this. :D

I know now you will say I just joked.. :D

Ditto!

well we are not equal. in some case we have precedence over men, and in others men have precedence over us.

but in the eye of ALLAH SWT we will be treated equally.

i cant deny that guys are smart, but charming :bummer:
and what did i joke about?

ofcourse whatelse :@: